Guest List....Who to Invite

First things first, you must understand that the wedding list is inevitably going to cause some sort of disagreement between you, your fiance, and both sets of parents. The guest list is going to determine the type of wedding you are going to have and your choices are going to depend on the list as well. For example, the catering service you may have or the number of favors and invitations you will have to order. The three major considerations to take into account when planning your list are:

- budget
- wedding size you would like
- reception site size

So, Who to Invite??

First, you need to ask yourself....who is so important that you cant imagine not being there for your day?
Those typically are the very first on the list. It can be two best friends or your whole family. A number doesn't have to be set, just make sure you answer the question.

Second...
Who don't you want to be there at all, no ands, if's or but's. Make sure you and your fiance discuss those people who are unwelcome.

Third...
Who is paying for the wedding? The individuals who are paying for the wedding obviously have a little more say as to how large it should be. If problems arise, remember to compromise. If you are paying for the wedding, make sure you and your fiance clearly specify the number of invites each side of the family are going to be able to have.

All in all, enjoy this time. Its stressful, but in a way it can be really fun. You don't have to make the list right away and send invitation, you don't want to tell people they are invited before you send the invitations either. Just make a tentative list and re-visit in a few months.